Hi GuidoFox here! Wonderful that you will read this article ;)

The 2 most (underlying) disturbance factors in your success with women could be the sexual and the emotional one: the afraidness to dysfunction in the bed and the afraidness to fall in love and be hurt again (fear of bonding). These fears could be felt by women (sub-consciousness) in their interactions with you and provoke a more distance attitude. The man could also ‘use’ distance moves by himself towards women when the moment comes to avoid painful – lower his self-confidence – moments (self-rejection). The self-fulfilling prophecy starts and a downward spiral will come into his life.

In my years and years of activeness in the world of seducing and relate to women I see so much men approaching here and there and having some dates, but a bunch of sexual variety and having multiple emotional connections aren’t in their lives – despite of all the hard work.

The afraidness to dysfunction in the bed could be tackled with training: training leads towards confidence (and women feel). Every morning I do PC-muscles exercises in the shower for my most important muscle (search google). It gives me confidence for the duration and the hardening of the muscle and I am also in the mood the whole day.

Stay active. Even in dark months I try to stay active with ‘lower your standards’. Be absolutely not too critical in your single life. In situations wherein men are having months and months no sexual contact, I recommend visiting a prostitute once in a few months to open yourself-up.

The afraidness to fall in love could be remedied by going deeper with women and not to say goodbye too easily (lower your standards). Learn to attach and become emotional (training), even if you know this is not the truly one for the rest of your life. There is nothing wrong with dating multiple women to figure emotional out what you like. To heal your old wounds it is nearly necessary to let yourself coached by a relationship coach. The mental blockades will be resolved and you will get your confidence back!

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Life Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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