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The nowadays ‘dating industry for men’ is in general influenced by the basic ideas of ‘non-neediness’ and ‘no more mister nice guy’ to help and support men further in their development and process of grow with women.

This starting position is quite understandable if we look to the overdriving raising-up social mechanism of constantly pleasing behavior towards women/girlfriend in the love/seducing-dynamics (people pleasers syndrome). Nevertheless, I see men nowadays loosing potential women/girlfriends through ‘the afraidness to be needy’ (not texting back adequately) and so they become hard, cold and distance-wise towards the other gender.

Another false belief system is currently ‘in the market’: the so called ‘constantly busy alpha male’ were women have only temporally access to (time-constraints). The thinking pattern will be: your time value is ‘high-worth’ and she will think that you are so high-value too, what should make you more attractive as a man.

If we combine these false believe systems – ‘non-neediness’ (afraidness to be needy), ‘no more mister nice guy’ and the ‘constantly busy alpha male’ – we get a hurrying stressful afraid hard, cold distance-wise rat stuck in the wheels of the (rat race) matrix, what is paradoxically towards the more healthy concept of the ‘lazy but efficient alpha-male’ in the corner of the monkey zoo.

He is working efficient in the mornings (fast alpha (adequately) decision making), is lazy in the afternoons and follows his intuition to communicate with the other gender. He could rest efficiently, but also work efficiently. He is warm-hearted by nature, but also corrective if needed. He stays always calm under pressure and could be nice/amiable when the situation asks for it. And last but not least, he makes time for a woman in a relaxing way – because he is capable enough to plan efficiently.

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Dating Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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