Hi GuidoFox here! Wonderful that you will read this article ;)

One of the most important factors in your success with women & dating is logistics, – in first very basic words – the plan what to do after your drinks or walks with her. I always teach my clients first about logistics, because you have to know where you are going too (perspective/vision).

I my years and years of coaching and experience, I recommend to meet-up as soon as possible – if the possibility is there – in a private atmosphere/setting, or second best a quiet corner (bar) or walks in nature (privacy). There are several reasons for it:

A) The woman feels freer to open herself up (and talk) in an atmosphere where other people aren’t able to listen with (pressure): this strengthens the connection

B) In a private location, like your house (making delicious pancakes together) or business area (coaching studio), she is able to know you better than in a bar due information availability: your type of furniture, the kind of pictures on the wall, the place you live (yes, he has a house), could tell a lot about a person: again, this strengthens the connection

C) You are feeling yourself way more comfortable in your own house than in a bar (bartender-effect a-contraire): again, this strengthens the connection

In the situation you meet the woman far away from your private location (not at walking distant) or she declines your first initiative (dating app or number change), you have no other option then go for the second best choice, like a walk in nature/city or coffee/tea/wine in a close by en route bar – with the logistics in mind to go to your place afterwards (walk/car/taxi).

In case you have a car (and you live far outside a big town), you are always able to meet the woman (if she declines the first initiative) – for her also safely wise – first at a central (busy) meeting point (near a station/business district) and suppose to go together with the car (kind of private location) for a wine/tea/coffee to a bar a bit further away.

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Dating Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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