Hi GuidoFox here! Wonderful that you will read this article ;)

The most common mistake a wingman could make is not being aware of the isolation process (out of the matrix where it happens) between the ‘matching’ man and woman. As the first accompanying position has to be one with good open social vibes, keeping her (the girlfriend of the potential match) attention and create trust/connection (it’s already difficult for the most guys), the second one is a path of trying to give the matching man and woman the right space (isolation).

We have to understand that a double match is very uncommon: the first initiative of the wingman is not there (the frame) consequences that the talk between the girlfriend and the wingman has to be just social – avoiding over-spiking (seducing talk), were she wants to go back to her girlfriend (disturbs the process), or under-spiking (boring talk), were she wants also back to her girlfriend (disturbs the process).

To avoid condemning/pressuring situations whereby the girlfriend feels alone, disagree or is (secretly) jealous by the attention of the seducing man to her friend (most common), we have to work – next to the verbal skills – on the physical skills: slowly let her turn away (back-to-back) from her friend to give the love space. In the communication between women the eyes play a big role. Slowly is the task of the wing and if the moment is there: a quick move away is the task of the seducing man.

If the isolated love space is created, you want to avoid as wingman as much as possible the situation were the girlfriend is trying to search for her friend: A) your conversation skills is not enough to keep her attention, B) you have to calm her down (‘they are soon back’, ‘just for a short walk’, ‘you can text her’). A love space can be disturbed so much if the girlfriend is interfering and talk to her friend again & the possibility that she let her go home with him is quite low.

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Life Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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