Hi GuidoFox here! Wonderful that you will read this article ;)

In the ‘traditional’ Dating Coaching you always learn (if they work properly) to set – as a man – the leading frame in the first moments of interactions (the first physical approach & opener ofc), the going-on-a-date question (let’s change numbers!, let’s go for a walk!, let’s go for a coffee/tea!) and the pull-question (I show you my view from my balcony! (NightGame), I am thirsty - let’s have a water together! (serious my last pull-question), pass by my coaching studio for a walk! (online dating)), as a consequence the female energy could trustfully & relax (she doesn’t need to take care on anything) going into the first polarity attraction fields.

Value

In the ‘traditional’ Dating Coaching it’s less common ‘how to keep your value as a man’ balancing the leading frame (first order) with being too dominant (manosphere) and too try-hard (too many leading frames/questions): a cool-off period could lead to more attraction due female initiative (male energy) has space to could interfere (female investing).

Temper before the Statements

In a way to keep your (high) value, taking initiative, creating attraction (push-pull/pull-push) and avoiding monotone conversations/questions, temper before the statements is a useful/spiking conversation technique.

After a tea/coffee together at a café: ‘what should we do now? (temper/pull), we can go for a walk! (statement/push)’

‘we can go to this area of the city (temper/pull) or have a tea at my coaching studio! (statement/push)’

‘what time is fine for you? (temper/pull), 16.00 or earlier! (statement/push)'

‘where we meet? (temper/pull), we can meet at my coaching studio! (statement/push)'

‘I will book a hotel maybe (maybe: letting space for her to dive in/take initiative) (temper/pull)’ - she: ‘I will have my own place, you can come (statement/push)' - me: ‘It’s convenient yes that I come to you (temper/pull)'

The temper before the statement keeps your value high due avoiding too try-hard tries from the scratch (again & again).

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Life Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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