Hi GuidoFox here! Wonderful that you will read this article ;)

The nowadays ‘dating industry for men’ is in general influenced by the basic ideas of ‘non-neediness’ and ‘no more mister nice guy’ to help and support men further in their development and process of grow with women.

This starting position is quite understandable if we look to the overweening raising-up social Western mechanism of constantly pleasing behavior towards women/girlfriend in the love/seducing-dynamics (people pleasers syndrome). Nevertheless, I see men nowadays loosing potential women/girlfriends through ‘the afraidness to be needy’ (per example: not texting back adequately) and they become hard, cold and distance-wise towards the other gender.

Another false belief system is recently ‘in the market’: the so called ‘constantly busy alpha male’ were women have only temporally access to (time-constraints). The thinking pattern will be: your time value is ‘high-worth’ and she will think that you are so high-value too, what should make you more attractive as a man.

If we combine these false believe systems – ‘non-neediness’ (afraidness to be needy), ‘no more mister nice guy’ and the ‘constantly busy alpha male’ – we get a hurrying stressful afraid hard, cold and distance-wise rat stuck in the wheels of the rat race matrix, what is paradoxically towards the more healthy concept in my opinion of the ‘lazy but efficient alpha-male’ in the corner of the monkey zoo.

He is working efficient in the mornings (fast alpha (adequately) decision making), is lazy in the afternoons and follows his intuition to communicate with the other gender. He could rest/relax efficiently, but also work efficiently. He is warm-hearted by nature, but also corrective if needed. He stays always calm under pressure and could be very nice/amiable when the situation asks for it. And last but not least, he makes time for a woman in a relaxing way – because he is capable enough to plan efficient-wise.

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Dating Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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