Hi GuidoFox here! Wonderful that you will read this article ;)

Today I would like to talk with you about the Re-Opener in DayGame: it’s a very complicated topic within this field of knowledge.

First of all we have to understand that a re-opener – a second opener of the woman you like, when she first refused to talk with you – is the last ‘best’ solution: the first opener wasn’t good enough.

There are many reasons why women aren’t in for a short talk with a male stranger. I don’t want to go into this topic and the reasons from her – or influenced by his – side (we can work on that).

In only very specific cases women will place a first rejection (or even second or third) as a test on your (male) persistence (I met my 3 years ex-girlfriend after a third rejection/test).

We have to take into account that a second (or third) opener could be seen from the social environment slightly as harassment, because this type of social dynamics (first opener as well) is out of the normal social intercourse (most people are just shopping around).

So, the first move is trying to avoid a second opener.

If the woman is not approachable within a short period of time (2-seconds rule / direct from intuition), social ‘environmental’ calibration will be the second best solution. You have to search for a spot where the matrix surrounding pressures are the lowest: less dense area, avoiding closeby hang youth, shop security & police and before terraces. We do this to avoid misunderstandings about the ‘uncommon’ situation, being in low spiritual pressuring’s condemning atmospheres and risks of (love) blocking interfering’s. In this manner, the woman feels more free (and safe) to be herself and she is able to open-up: that’s your responsibility as a man.

At the moment the woman – for what kind of reasons – rejects the first approach (you are approaching her at a square and she thinks you are a street seller), you are able to make the decision for the re-opener following the arguing’s from the paragraph above: if you meet her in a short period of time (2-seconds rule), you are able to approach her in a short period more in a clearer way again (same frame). If you meet her in a social calibration way, you are able to meet her later again with giving her the pleasant space. The last situation is very unusual, because ‘why I should want to meet her again?’ if the path between us is not working out smoothly – even with the less matrix pressuring surroundings.

In all the situations: don’t follow her slightly (creepily / needy) direct after the first rejection (stand still), but make a re-opener later (from before) with enough comfortable space between you and her to know eachother (even more than the first opener).

Greetz,

GuidoFox – Evolve your Life!

High-End Spiritual Dating Coach

www.GuidoFox.nl

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